“Exploring Boundaries: When Trust and Play Meet with the Rabbit Vibrator”

It sounds like you are grappling with a deep personal boundary that was crossed, even though it might seem small to others. Your rules are a significant part of your dynamic with your Dom, representing your commitment and submission. Sharing them with another prospective sub might feel like a breach of intimacy and trust, which is perfectly valid.

While it’s common for Doms to have similar or shared rules between subs, the fact that these particular rules are so personal and meaningful to you is what makes this situation more delicate. You aren’t the [__] for feeling hurt. It’s important to address these feelings openly with your Dom, explaining why the rules feel sacred to you and how sharing them affected you.

Your Dom might not have realized how significant this was to you, so a calm, honest conversation about boundaries and emotional connection could help. If your Dom’s response continues to be flippant, it may indicate a larger issue in communication or respect within your dynamic.

No, you’re not the [__]. You just need a conversation to clarify and reaffirm your emotional boundaries.